"If only. . ." Two of the saddest words I can think of. "If only" I had called a cab. "If only" I had witnessed to dad before he passed away. "If only" I had been on time to work.
This morning I read an article about the continuing tragedy involving the Jerry Sandusky case and Penn State. In addition to the damaged caused to the young men, the cost of the case has reached at least $237,000,000. There are also still several lawsuits and criminal actions pending against various people involved in the case.
As I read the article, I wondered how many times various people have asked themselves, "If only I had called the police." "If only I had investigated that rumor." "If only I had sent that email I had composed." "If only. . ."
Often times in life we are faced with an unpleasant situation where we must address an unpleasant topic with a friend, coworker, or family member. It is easy to avoid that conversation, but in doing so we might be setting in motion a series of events which will have outcomes that make any immediate discomfort pale in comparison.
To that parent who thinks they may smell marijuana on a jacket, talk about it.
To the secretary who is being harassed by a coworker, visit with someone in human resources.
To the sister who has a brother who is has not accepted Christ as Lord and Savior, make the time to share the Gospel message.
Sin is like a cavity in a tooth. It won't get better on its own. Treatment is necessary to clean out and repair the damage. There are times when God is calling us to confront sin that is damaging others. Do it prayerfully. Do it kindly. Do it in love. But do it.
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